Another year, another official day to be thankful. The official day that kicks off the madness that is "Black Friday", and now even "Brown Thursday". The crazy commercialization of the holidays. I'm so thankful H. and I aren't into shopping, or crowds, or frivolous spending. I'm thankful we both love country living, farm life and it's endless lists of chores, and that we both have hobbies/sports that we enjoy and keep us outside and active.
I'm thankful for my pond, my dogs, and their love of running single track with me as I ride. I'm thankful for the ability and health to continue to ride and race bikes. Thankful to the people of MOOTS Cycles for not only making dream bikes, but allowing me to represent them via their GrassMoots program. Also for their continued support and friendship. I hope to get back to the mothership this coming year for another family reunion.
The Godfather presenting the coveted Godfather Cup.
I'm also thankful for cycling bringing such varied and interesting people into my life that I now call friends. Especially my Smith County Mafia crew. I'm thankful for Steven and Ruthie for altering the day's plans to accommodate H.'s crazy work schedule. Thankful for their continued hard work to put on one of the best renegade events of the year, The Godfather Cup. Thankful for Stanley and his infectious laugh and love of exploring via bike. His eternal "wonder where that road goes" youthful exuberance. Thankful for all the friends they have introduced into my little world.
Nathan was worn out after the ride. He's lucky we didn't grab the sharpie.
Also thankful for their shared love of pranking and joking. Life is unfair, painful, and sorrow-filled but a lot more tolerable and fun to experience with as much humor as you can pack in.
Thankful for my family. Growing up in a small town I saw them a lot. As college and young adult life took off, distances grew. Free time to travel home diminished. Now it's once or twice a year that I get to physically see them. Something for which I'm not thankful. I miss them. I miss the Sunday lunches at Grandma Hoffman's, the dual big family dinners at X-mas and Thanksgiving, the summertime family reunions, the booming "well hello there" greetings from Grandpa Spence and riding out to the farm with him, throwing horseshoes and picking onions with Grandpa Hoffman, 4 o'clock happy hours at Dad's. Social Media has made keeping in touch easier, making the many miles between us feel a lot less distant, and allowing rare treasures such as old WWII photos of my Grandfather's to be shared. I'm thankful of my family's love of picture taking and that these old photos have found new life in a digital age.
I'm thankful we were able to go visit my sister, sister-in-law, and niece out in Salem. I love them, especially that little blue-eyed wonder child. I wish we had more free-time and money to afford more frequent trips, but grateful for the moments we were able to share. I hope to get back out to see them again next year as well as visiting a few other friends scattered around the states (look out Montana, Colorado, & Minnesota).
So this Thanksgiving do something for this old kid (aka me), take a moment to enjoy what and who you have in your life and not what is on sale or when the stores open. What's in front of you and not what's on the tv. Take a moment to look around outside, to look up at the night sky, to enjoy that cup of coffee or tea across the table from loved ones. Take the time to listen to their stories, to breath in their lives. Those are the moments worthy of keeping and are far to fleeting. Happy Thanksgiving,